Selfish

We are on minute 54 of screaming right now. Fifty-four minutes of screams of various pitches and modulations. Sometimes, there’s a rattling sound, when a bit of snot gets lodged in his nose. Otherwise, it mostly just sounds like shrieking. …

Mama’s First New Year’s Resolutions

I love a good new year’s celebration. I do several “new years” throughout the year—September back-to-school time, which always feels ripe for a new learning opportunity; Winter Solstice, in which we say good-bye to the previous year; and January 1, …

Baby’s First Gift Guide: 2016

Because I am a human who loves shopping and who is also broke most of the time, I love gift guides. I love leafing through a page or six of carefully curated items, each with a special person in mind—Grandma! …

Dance Babies Dance

I love dancing. I’m not amazing at it; I can shimmy my hips and stomp my feet, but I’m no fluid angel of light-borne energy or anything. But I genuinely love it. When I started to do some soul-healing a …

Kid Scares: Halloween Movie Roundup

My husband loves Halloween. Like, looooooves it. How many o’s were in that “love”? Add two more. It is his favourite holiday by far, as it collects several of his favourite things—spookiness, chocolate, monsters, horror, the macabre, an excuse to …

The Tiniest Things: Nine Months

Because things change so fast. Things I want to remember about these days include: // He loves Tupperware! I give him a big container filled with lids and smaller containers, and he can spend a good fifteen minutes tossing everything …

To the Women on the Fence

To the undecided woman: You may now be getting to the point where making a decision about kids—yes or no—feels like an imperative. It might be a decision you have to reckon with in order to take your relationship to …

Get On My Wave(length)

Wavelengths. It all comes down to wavelengths. When you fall in love at first sight—that electricity up and down your arms, into the pit of your stomach, and out through a grin you can’t control—it’s not because you’re ka-blammo’ed by …

Anatomy of a Hangout: Before and Now

Your life changes when you have kids, man. It changes in big ways, and unexpected little ways. Things that used to be tough are now easy (napping the in the middle of the day? On it), while things that used …